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09-14-2019, 10:03 PM | #1 |
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We had a rather unusual situation awhile back, and we’d be interested in forum members’ opinions. We invited some friends over for lunch and a ride on our new-to-us boat. Beautiful day, sunny, warm, not a cloud in the sky, and they arrived.......with their dog, expecting that he’d be welcome aboard, off-white upholstery and all. I was floored! Never imagined in a million years that I would have to qualify the invitation by saying “Two legged animals only!” Are we inhospitable, or just plain nuts? The dog, by the way, was left behind. Believe it or not, I felt guilty, even cruel for denying them their way. In retrospect, it’s annoying to be placed in that situation.
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09-15-2019, 02:48 AM | #3 |
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How large was the dog? Was it a dog that could be carried for the duration of the trip? What aspect in the presence of a dog had you concerned? Just the newness of the boat? I'd be concerned about a miniature horse, declared as a "comfort animal", but dogs are "family" in today's world. They're seen in Wolfeboro restaurants without objection.
But even a large dog will stand at the bow, detecting things in our environment we can't imagine--all the while protecting "their people" from harm. (Whether two-legged, four-legged, or no-legged). They're well known for "holding it" aboard boats. Left behind, they'll bark with "separation anxiety", not improving matters with your neighbors. Mirroring human behavior, they tend to get overexcited when a fish is caught and brought aboard, so there's that one exception to a dog on board I'd reluctantly make. To keep passengers from damaging cushions or seating structure, some captains insist on bare feet for all aboard, discriminating against shoe-wearing. If boat cushions are unable to protect against damage, next time, buy some dog booties, and insist the dog wear them.
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We have a 10 lb terrier and are dog friendly. That said, I would never ASSUME that our dog would be welcome on someone else's boat. that they did is simply rude and thoughtless.
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09-15-2019, 07:14 AM | #6 |
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My dog is the queen of our boat!
I would never assume that she would be welcomed on anyone else’s boat or car or home or property. Yesterday was my granddaughter’s birthday party at my daughters home complete with bounce house, 4 year olds running rampant, the young moms overseeing it all and a muggy, rainy afternoon. My dog, which is welcome there on most visits, stayed happily in my truck, where she is also queen. |
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I have a dog but I would never assume she would be welcomed on someone else's boat. That being said, I've been invited on some boats where the owners are so anal about everything that it ruins the whole experience to the point that we never go back out with them.
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We allow all well behaved dogs on our boat / boats. We simply put towels down to ensure their claws don’t dig into seats.
With that being said, not everyone is the same and one should never assume your dog is allowed at someone’s house or property without asking first. This is simple common sense. Dan
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I'm with you, Sue, They should have asked when you invited them
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We never take our lab anywhere without asking the host. That being said, she is one of the sweetest dogs, but can be a bit hyper and does jump a bit.
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Same with our Golden. She is very excitable when people visit and then calms right down and is extremely friendly. But she sheds like crazy and not all people like that. So for that reason she stays home when we go out. Fortunately people who come to visit us generally know and love her too and we always have a lint brush handy for a little de-furring.
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OP: What if the dog were in fact a bona fide "service animal:" would / should you allow the dog to accompany its owner in that event?
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If you have a dog, or know your gusts have a dog, there is some responsibility to discuss everything ahead of time. You ask about who's bringing food, drinks, towels, etc. right? and how long people can last if you don't have a head on board? We love most dogs and most kids, but some need advance planning. You know who you are.
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I really appreciate all the different perspectives....and you reinforced our thoughts about handling uninvited guests aboard the boat. The hosts get to make the rules (politely enforced). BTW, the steamboat parade was great this morning with lots of boats playing to an appreciative audience. Bravo!
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Missed it this year. How many stem boats had dogs? Had I been a spectator boat, Daisy would have been on the bow. Her friends, Brandy and Kodiak, more restrained, would sit in the stern.
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She doesn't like the water but she loves the boat rides.
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A bonafide service dog, yes, it would be allowed. A “support/comfort” kangaroo/weasel/python/bunny/puppy, etc....hmmmm...not so much.
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If you ever have mobility trouble or need a support dog take a "Miracle Flight" to Florida.
You will see the people being pushed in a wheelchair go through the fast lane at security and arrive at the gate . They often have their support dog on their lap and go to the head of the line for early boarding. No waiting for them, and it is sad to see they have problems. Something happens on the "Miracle Flight" because, remarkably, when the plane arrives in Florida they stand up and jog off of the plane. It is amazing to watch! |
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If they do not get off the plane with the other passengers, then they have to wait for the entire plane to deboard, possibly blocking some other passengers trying to get out. I wouldn't call these "miracle flights" at all, just flights with people who have trouble getting around and are trying to do their best to manage it. I fly quite a bit, primarily in and out of TPA. Can't recall too many times I have seen anyone of any age actually "jog" off of a plane, it's usually a herd of slow moving people.
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If those people feel they are getting some kind of a jump on the rest of us, they can go on believing that for all I care, I am happy to not be part of that mindset.
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Time for update on the dog lovers
We invited our friends with the dogs for lunch and a boat ride, and we had a wonderful day out on our beautiful lake, and the pooches were nowhere in sight.
Everyone was happy, and since they have the idea about no dogs on our boat, all went perfectly. If this weather holds, we’ll do it again. Enjoy! We have 3 more days in a row of this. |
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I would feel a little differently. I would understand that you don't want dogs, but I wouldn't go if I couldn't bring my dogs. And that would be fine. Of course maybe if I didn't have my own boats and my dogs always go with us, I would be more anxious for a ride. Now if I had BIG dogs, it would be different. I think it makes a difference if they are going to sit on your lap or slobber all around your boat. When we used to have bigger dogs, they didn't go everywhere with us.
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That is one cute dog!
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