Cemetery

[Lady Di]

Everywhere that I have ever loved, at least I am hoping for that. Of course we cannot plan everything, but if I were to have my way, some of "me" would be scattered over the Pacific, some in Florida, but mostly in New Hampshire, as that is where both of my children were born.

And, hopefully, that scattering would be on a warm day.

Ain't no way I want people to think of me "moldering in the ground".

[Pepper]

Pineedles, it's interesting to me that you bring up this topic at this time, as it is something I have recently given thought to.

I had always been of the mindset that I didn't want to be stuffed in the ground for eternity, but rather have my ashes strewn in a favorite place, Bermuda.

However, recent events in my life have caused me to completely reverse that way of thinking. Such reversal having caused me now to ponder the very question you pose above - where. The answer - home - here - the only place that ever "spoke" to me.

There are many peaceful and beautiful such resting places all around the lake, and I feel confident that should you choose to locate yourself for eternity here, there is a place which you will find suitable and which will welcome you.

Eerie but interesting topic, which is actually an expression of the "ultimate" love of our beautiful Lakes Region.

[Pineedles]

I thought cremation is the way to go as well Lady Di. I was thinking more of the headstone as the connection to future generations. What is of concern to me is more where? Some place quiet and pleasant to visit. The acre upon acre of typical cemeteries don't appeal. A smaller more intimite site is what I had in mind. I was wondering if in the lakes region there are sites that fit that bill. Perhaps something with a view of the lake. Uh OH, I wonder if they tax more heavily graveyards with a view? I can't see why, the residents can't see anything. Sorry, just a little levity. But I really am serious; are there such places around the lake, I wonder?

[phoenix]

i think Broadhopper's signature says it best

[BroadHopper]

Never thought anyone will read my signature.

'We are known by the tracks we leave behind': An old Indian saying.

[66WINN]

I too have had thoughts about death, my love for this place, and scattering my ashes over the lake. It's more of an expression of how I feel about the lake than where I am after I die. There is no location on earth that make me happier than being in the lakes region...childhood memories...current experiences with the family... I think of the lake and NH in general as "God's Country". It's so beautiful and awe inspiring. Spending time here can be so restorative to one's spirit. Getting away from the hustle and bustle and being surrounded by such beauty; it's just wonderful. The thought of being laid to rest where you are happiest is a comforting thought. In the end though, it really won't matter where my body lies. What will really matter is the times I spent with my family and the happy memories we shared in this beautiful place. After I die, this place will be of little consequecne to me. The memories shared with the loved ones left behind will be their best source of comfort. The pain of separation in death will hurt, but it will be tempered by thinking of the happy times spent at the lake. And if that causes them to want to spend more time here with their families, then the circle will continue. May we all get to spend many more happy years here in this place of beauty. Thanks to God for giving us such a wonderful place.