It's funny how people handle things differently. We had our baby cremated but every time I saw him, I couldn't handle it. I put him out of sight for a while but still when I saw him, I broke up. So finally we had to bury him. I just couldn't deal with it. I guess my way is pretending it isn't true. If you don't think about it , it isn't so painful. This was four years ago and I still can't type this without crying. And we have another one getting old and is very ill, but the vets say he is a miracle, they don't know how he keeps holding on.
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