Cate,
I enjoy reading your posts and the threads you started. I learned alot from them. Stay connected to the forum...obviously, the forum members have so much to offer us all, but it appears you do to.
Sorry to hear of you and your partner splitting up. I hope all goes well with this phase of your life.
In the meantime....keep checking out NH and all its souroundings....you'll find exactly where you should be!
eillac