But I finally found a decent one!
We've thrown away hundreds of dollars worth of LED replacements for incandescent bulbs over the past few years because we hated every one--too harsh, flickering, etc. We kept trying, like Charlie Brown and the football. But with the new rules on August 1, it was either go to the dark web or look around again...and I'm low on Bitcoin. Pleased to report we found one we really like through Wirecutter. The Feit Soft White Enhance 2700K, 60W. They also save lots of $ over time, with 9 watts replacing 60.
If you hate LEDs, I recommend
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07FFBGD59...KFDP5SN3AT6ZK2