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dmjr 05-28-2008 08:48 AM

Forum Fest 2008
 
Does anyone know when and where the 2008 Forum Fest will be this year?

Thank You

Argie's Wife 05-29-2008 06:18 AM

It's at your house - didn't you get the memo? ;)

Hermit Cover 05-29-2008 04:16 PM

Ok.....
 
Argies Wife.....I didn't get the memo either.....Now that we know where it is....tell us what date and time....according to your memo that you got!!! Oh ....and should we bring "something"???:confused:

Rattlesnake Gal 05-30-2008 12:18 PM

ForumFest V
 
dmjr, seeing how you were the one to bring it up, you have been elected to head the ForumFest V Committee! :laugh: (I am not joking, we are right behind you!)

I have been meaning say thank you to Mr. & Mrs. Hermit Cover for the wonderful Winni stickers they gave out to everyone at ForumFest IV!
(You would think we would be seeing more around the lake!)

There were some great raffle items last year. (Sadly my clever Nippy Canoe donated by Mee-n-Mac is but a memory now, thankfully the fleece throw that rrr donated is still keeping me warm!) Many thanks to all who donated items or their valuable time. Thumbs up to all who purchased raffle tickets to support Quilt Lady's charity. Doesn't she make the best quilts? :D New Hampshire Humane Society was a very worthy cause.

Rattlesnake Guy and I look forward to seeing everyone at ForumFest V this year! We have already picked up our donation item, have you? :D

By the way, McDude, did Goodsk8s ever come through on your house plaque prize?

mcdude 05-30-2008 03:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rattlesnake Gal (Post 71663)
By the way, McDude, did Goodsk8s ever come through on your house plaque prize?

RG: I deleted my response...some things are better left unsaid!

csuhockey3 05-30-2008 03:52 PM

I hope I can make it!
 
I had the distinct pleasure to meet Mr. Hermit Cover and he couldn't have been a nicer guy. I sincerely hope I can work it out to get back "home" to meet all of you folks! ...and Pepper, get the new place done already; I'm hungry! :emb:

Blue Thunder 05-30-2008 06:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rattlesnake Gal (Post 71663)


By the way, McDude, did Goodsk8s ever come through on your house plaque prize?

Well, that might explain why I was chastized by the webmaster for looking for Goodsk8s due to a lack of response.

BT

Rattlesnake Gal 05-30-2008 06:17 PM

Sorry McDude
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by mcdude (Post 71681)
RG: I deleted my response...some things are better left unsaid!

Sorry I asked McDude. :( The last time we spoke you still didn’t have it yet. I was hoping that it would have shown up by now. At least your donation went to a good cause. After revisiting the ForumFest IV thread I could see that Goodsk8s was really angry :fire: :fire: :fire: about not being included in the raffle because his express mail had been returned. Maybe this was his way to make himself feel better? Or maybe he just forgot? Hopefully he will eventually come through for you.

SteveA 05-31-2008 09:08 PM

Ff 08
 
I still think we should consider the Loon Center in Moultonborough as a site.

Nice spot, plenty of room, indoor and out, and a very good cause to give the raffle procedes to. (IMHO) :)

http://www.loon.org/index.html

And... a High Speed Computer hook up for a "live" broadcast of the event.

Argie's Wife 06-03-2008 02:27 PM

*bump*

How is this usually organized? Is it just a consensus sorta thing? Do we do a poll or something?

I'd like to make it this year, if I can!

SteveA 07-07-2008 10:31 AM

"Re- Bump"

I will volunteer to help... and I still think the Loon Center would make a great spot.

Mee-n-Mac 07-07-2008 04:40 PM

Sounds like a job for ...
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by SteveA (Post 75274)
"Re- Bump"

I will volunteer to help... and I still think the Loon Center would make a great spot.

Hmmm, sounds to me like ex-post fatto commitee needs to sit down and discuss the matters at hand in great detail. May I propose the new Dockside restaurant and bar sometime next Saturday, lunch - dinner time ? Or perhaps Shibleys on the waterfront patio ....

Skip 07-07-2008 04:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mee-n-Mac (Post 75316)
Hmmm, sounds to me like ex-post fatto commitee needs to sit down and discuss the matters at hand in great detail. May I propose the new Dockside restaurant and bar sometime next Saturday, lunch - dinner time ? Or perhaps Shibleys on the waterfront patio ....

Hmmmm....

I might be able to make a late afternoon rendezvous....

Twist my arm and I might even be willing to spring for the first round of "oranges"....:laugh:

riverat 07-07-2008 05:16 PM

I second the Dockside! Their Haddock Sandwiches are Wicked Good.

Argie's Wife 07-08-2008 07:15 AM

What's the turnout like for this? Can the Dockside handle this group of loons?

SIKSUKR 07-08-2008 08:02 AM

Oh boy,I need to meet some of you loonatics.

Hermit Cover 07-08-2008 09:04 PM

Fellow Festers....
 
Will be in the Adirondacks til late Saturday picking up two bear cubs...will be back too late to meet...but will do whatever is needed to get this Fest going....can't wait.....HC

Mee-n-Mac 07-11-2008 05:58 PM

Ex Post Fatto Committee meeting
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Argie's Wife (Post 75376)
What's the turnout like for this? Can the Dockside handle this group of loons?

I think the Dockside could at least handle a meeting of loons to start to figure what to for FF2008 ... say this Sat about 1pm ... just after the lunch rush.

Argie's Wife 07-11-2008 06:13 PM

I have to work and can't make that date/time but it seems it's usually in September. It's been in Wolfeboro most often. Hard to say what the turn out would be like but it seems about 20 or so people turn out?

Just tell me when/where and I'm happy to help!

Hermit Cover 07-13-2008 10:12 PM

Fest Fatto Meeting????
 
Well?? Mac .... Saturday at 1 has come and gone....are there minutes of the "meet"?

Mee-n-Mac 07-14-2008 12:20 PM

Ex-comm report out
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Hermit Cover (Post 75961)
Well?? Mac .... Saturday at 1 has come and gone....are there minutes of the "meet"?

Alas there wasn't a quorum so there are no officious notes. However the haddock sandwich is still wicked good and the Sam Summer Ales still wicked cold. Perhaps another time ...

webmaster 07-24-2008 10:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Argie's Wife (Post 75376)
What's the turnout like for this?

By the time this group picture was taken there were about 30 people left. Since many people come and go during the day the total number last year was probably closer to 50-60. You can see more pictures here.


Mee-n-Mac 07-24-2008 12:08 PM

When ? Where ?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by dmjr (Post 71477)
Does anyone know when and where the 2008 Forum Fest will be this year?

Thank You

Sounds like it's time for a poll or two.

SIKSUKR 07-24-2008 12:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mee-n-Mac (Post 77184)
Sounds like it's time for a poll or two.

Was that an ethnic joke or are you talking brass poles?

Mee-n-Mac 07-24-2008 12:35 PM

2 Poles
 
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Originally Posted by SIKSUKR (Post 77192)
Was that an ethnic joke or are you talking brass poles?

Well I was refering to these two but I like your brand of dancing better. See you at the bar (you know which one). Order me a whiskey ... anything but Canadian Club (I might be bringing the seal and he gets nervous when those are mentioned). :eek:

Mashugana 07-25-2008 05:57 AM

Pole dancing
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Mee-n-Mac (Post 77196)
Well I was refering to these two but I like your brand of dancing better. See you at the bar (you know which one). Order me a whiskey ... anything but Canadian Club (I might be bringing the seal and he gets nervous when those are mentioned). :eek:

I think it was on this site that I saw a member that is a pole dancer. I got to get going for work or I would search for it now.

sa meredith 07-29-2008 04:48 PM

Strange Twist of Fate?
 
So here is a thought...
Although I have never attended a Forum Fest, and don't know the specific requirements for space, parking, docking, etc., wouldn't it be ironic if the place that has taken the biggest beating on this forum this year, hosts the Forum Fest?
I bet The Lobster Pound (and owner Mike Ray, a new forum member) would welcome a big group, set aside space on the outdoor deck (and, of course, in the event of rain, things could be moved inside quickly) and be sure the place puts "it's best foot forward". There would plenty of parking, and for those travelling by boat, the Weirs Docks are an easy walk. It would certainly be a twist of fate...them hosting the annual forum get together, after being pounded so soundly this summer. Just a thought...
I guess the only drawback would be people would have to spend a bit, and I believe past Forum Fests have been a "free food" type thing...although, again, I have never been, so I am not sure how it works.
But it would be ironic...Forum Fest at Lobster Pound.

brk-lnt 07-29-2008 06:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sa meredith (Post 77679)
So here is a thought...
Although I have never attended a Forum Fest,

I've never attended one either, but I would probably go to support the LP.

Audiofn 08-11-2008 06:55 AM

Goodsk8s: While I think that everyone on this forum can sympathise what you are going through I think that it is unfair to be mad at them if you in fact seem to have been the one that lost communication (obviously for very good reason). If you made a deal people just want you to come through. I am sure that if they had known what you are going through they would have understood 100%. Sorry for what you are going through and I am glad that you were finally able to resolve at leaste this issue. Best of luck with your mother.

sa meredith 08-11-2008 07:58 AM

Not sure...
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Rattlesnake Gal (Post 71693)
Sorry I asked McDude. :( The last time we spoke you still didn’t have it yet. I was hoping that it would have shown up by now. At least your donation went to a good cause. After revisiting the ForumFest IV thread I could see that Goodsk8s was really angry :fire: :fire: :fire: about not being included in the raffle because his express mail had been returned. Maybe this was his way to make himself feel better? Or maybe he just forgot? Hopefully he will eventually come through for you.

Goodsk8s...
I've read this post a few times and find it rather mild (and this coming from me, who is a fan of the "harsh" post).
Let me say this...my heart goes out to you...my own father, who started our Lakes Region Tradition back in the early 70's, is currently in the throws of his second battle with cancer, so I can relate to the distractions, and the disconnect from everyday life. Little else matters when a family memeber learns their days may be numbered. I wish you and your family the best...
That being said...
I disagree with your attemp to "call out" Rattlesnake Gal, and possibly embarress her (at the very least, make her feel bad). Her posts are always informative/helpful/positive. And she did give you the benifit of the doubt..."maybe he (she) forgot" "Hopefully he (she) will eventually come thru for you" You did!
Her post was based on what she knew..the item had never been delivered.
I'm quite sure, had she known what the case was, she probably would have offered to buy the plaque for you, to save you the time. Just my opinion.

Hermit Cover 08-11-2008 09:27 PM

What?????
 
I hate to bring up the subject....but I think the question was....(way back when) When is Forum Fest 2008???? (Sorry to butt in on the controversy....but gee, folks? ) Think Forum Fest '08!! Time's a wastin!!:)

Alton Bay Bob 08-12-2008 09:42 AM

I thought so too
 
"I "feel bad" because I was of the impression that, for the most part, the Forum was a place for like-minded folks to express their love and concern about a place they all hold dear. Of late, it seems to be a gathering point for malicious gossip, snide remarks and innuendo. It seems, too, that a number of long-time, constructive posters are no longer participating."




I have been wondering the same thing lately. The forum seems to have lost a lot of the regular posters to be replaced by some "gossip,snide remarks, and innuendo" or at least.. less pleasant repartee (however you spell that) Do you think that may be the reason there are no takers for the next forum fest? I hope not. I have always enjoyed the friendly banter and of course the pictures of the previous fests.

Mr. Moyer 08-12-2008 10:54 AM

Is there going to be a forum fest?
 
I have never attended a forum fest, but would love to meet everyone. I think that would make the brousing of this forum even that much better. The sooner the date can be picked, the better so folks can get it on their schedules. I'd love to attend, so let us know.

How about Waldo Peppers? I went there last week for the first time and the sandwich i had was great, been back 3 times since.

sa meredith 08-12-2008 11:05 AM

repeat
 
Although I posted this weeks ago, it got almost no response, so just to re-submit the idea. I think it would be a strange "twist of fate" (and a good one) if FF was held at Lobster Pound. After the beating they took this summer on the forum, I bet they would welcome the chance to host, and perhaps make some type of special arraingements for the forum members.
Because it is post-Labor Day, there would be pleny of room outside/inside (rain?), plenty of parking, and plenty of dock space (at the Weirs).
The only draw back would be that people would have to be willing to spend a few dollars...which I believe has not been the case at past FFs...although I am not sure...I have never been.

SteveA 08-12-2008 04:13 PM

Ya But....
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by sa meredith (Post 78804)
Although I posted this weeks ago, it got almost no response, so just to re-submit the idea. I think it would be a strange "twist of fate" (and a good one) if FF was held at Lobster Pound. After the beating they took this summer on the forum, I bet they would welcome the chance to host, and perhaps make some type of special arraingements for the forum members.
Because it is post-Labor Day, there would be pleny of room outside/inside (rain?), plenty of parking, and plenty of dock space (at the Weirs).
The only draw back would be that people would have to be willing to spend a few dollars...which I believe has not been the case at past FFs...although I am not sure...I have never been.

The "Thing" about the Forum Fest has been that there isn't a cost that goes with it. If you look at the sites for the previous FF's. Folks bring food and soft drinks. It's always been a social event that only costs the gas to get there and the prizes people donate for that particular years selected charity.

The FF has donated $1,000's to local charity groups. I would only go if that was the goal of the FF.

Going "commercial" would shut me out. I don't think that's what it is all about.
Just my Humble Opinion. Nothing against Lobster Pound.

Plus.. I see lot's of "regulars" missing from the forum, I suspect they, like me, are starting to get a little sick of the negative, arguementive and just plan nasty posts that seems to be growing daily. Again.. JMHO

RLW 08-12-2008 04:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SteveA (Post 78824)
Going "commercial" would shut me out. I don't think that's what it is all about.
Just my Humble Opinion. Nothing against Lobster Pound.
Plus.. I see lot's of "regulars" missing from the forum, I suspect they, like me, are starting to get a little sick of the negative, arguementive and just plan nasty posts that seems to be growing daily. Again.. JMHO

I was about to put a comment regarding having the FF at the LP (Now I know what LP stands for). However SteveA put my feelings in before I got here. His words are right on in my mind. All though I have never been able to attend a FF I have enjoyed the day from others words both here on forum and in person of those that attended. If I were to be able to attend my vote would be at the park in Wolfeboro as usual.:)

sa meredith 08-12-2008 05:17 PM

Maybe...
 
SteveA..Yeah, I sort of thought that was the case. But there certainly could still be raffles and so forth. And maybe LP would be willing to do something like donate 25 or 30 cents on every dollar spent, to the charity that is chosen.
Just a thought. LP may not even be interested in such a thing...it was really just a thought. Thninking the available space and central location made it atractive. Just my opinion.
With regard to the second part of your post, I wonder if you might take a second (along with anyone else that reads this) to really read what I am about to write, stop to consider it for a minute, think about it, and then respond if you are so inclined.
I take a bit of responsibilty for some of the recent arguments, as I frequently find myself in the middle of them. The reason I get mixed up in them is this...as I became a forum member about 1 1/2 years age, I often posted with questions, and always got great answers and good advice...and in the process learned who all the regulars were, and what their posting styles were, and usuall opinions were. But as time went by, and really most recently, I saw inconsistencies that just drove me freakin' nuts! And I will spare listing example upon example (there are simply dozens upon dozens) and boil it down to just a few glaring examples.
A while back it was very much "in style" to post negative stuff about The Tammarack (sp?). They took a beating regularly from forum members...even members who do not regularly join in with negative stuff joined the parade.
And so when it was posted here about the kid who was fired, it was pile on time. Never mind thinking The Tammarack may have a side to the story...no no no. Bashing them is an acceptable practice....and I have no problem with it if it is what you want to do......UNTIL:
Flash forward to the Saturday morning that a negative review was written about Waldo Peppers..."Whoa, my Heavenly God, though shall not fault thee famous Waldo Peppers...damn thee to eternal fire..yee evil poster" was about the gist of all the regular forum members posts as the day unfolded.
And it was funny..because the negative post turned out to be truthful and accurate. But in the beginning, it was OK to just dis-regard the posters negative review, and chastise him...he was attacking "one of our own".
The inconsistencies just drove me crazy....so I just felt compelled to react.
And now, later in the summer (and I don't want to re-hash this argument, I am simply using this example as a point of reference) we witnessed the verbal, all out assault on the famous 4th of July Ski-mobile skimmer. People just bashed away...and not because it broke a law (which I would agree with) but because of the dangerous, and careless, and selfish act of the rider.
"Banish him for life" I believe one poster wrote...
Well, upon checking back to the posts written when we had the tragic and fatal accident on the lake this summer, many of those same bashers, never said a word about "how could the captain have let this happen?" If fact, I believe I may have been the only person who posted, that although my prayers and thoughts were with all involved, in the end, this forum has ALWAYS stated...A captain is responsible for everything that occurs on their boat. So my blood boiled when one act of irresposiblity led to a public lynching, and the other never ever even suggested the operater would be held accountable. I mean, really, of the two incidents, which one came out OK? This is not a negative post about Erica...I simply use it to show inconsistencies in peoples postings...and I just don't understand...and so sometimes I just react. And now, most recently.....
Check this right now, if you don't agree.... I recently stated that some members were censored, while others, saying the exact same things were not.
Well, a few days back, I entered a post under the "Lobster roll ingredients" thread...and at the end, left a message about the Red Sox for Pineedles.
But the Sox message part was "lopped off", just plain dis-appeared.
But, somehow, two posts down, there is Pineedles response to the lobster part of my post, and, amazingly, his response about the Red Sox part...and his opinion on the Sox issue. No cut, no censoring. But my Sox comment...sorry, bye. I guess I just don't understand...but I will try to stay away from arguments in the future.
Webmaster...I understand this thread is probably now hi-jacked, but please allow it to stand for a day or so...

Mr. Moyer 08-12-2008 05:48 PM

I would be in if it was at the Wolfboro park for free, or if it was at the lobster pound. the cost is not the main concern for me, it's whetehr I can find the time. If it was scheduled for the middle of Sept, I as well as others could put it on our schedules. I think it would be neat to put some names with the faces. Hope it works out, I would do my darndest to get there. Not sure who would be in charge of setting it up. My question would be, if it's in the park, would we be able to bring coolers with some beers or is that off limits. If it is, my vote is for a restaurant. Needless to say, I'm a relative newcomer to the forum 1 1/2 yrs, so I'll leave it up to the vets to show me the way.

If it doesn't get put together this year, I want to extend a thank you to all on the forum, for the ongoing education and entertainment. Hope to see you all.

Rose 08-12-2008 07:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sa meredith (Post 78830)
UNTIL:
Flash forward to the Saturday morning that a negative review was written about Waldo Peppers..."Whoa, my Heavenly God, though shall not fault thee famous Waldo Peppers...damn thee to eternal fire..yee evil poster" was about the gist of all the regular forum members posts as the day unfolded.
And it was funny..because the negative post turned out to be truthful and accurate. But in the beginning, it was OK to just dis-regard the posters negative review, and chastise him...he was attacking "one of our own".
The inconsistencies just drove me crazy....

I have to agree with you on this one, sa meredith. I know I've self-edited on several occasions because I figured what I was about to post might be construed as negative against what I would call "one of the blessed" posters and I just figured I'd get flamed for it. Whether anyone here wants to admit it or not, there can definitely be a clique mentality on this forum at times. Maybe that's why the FF is garnering little interest this year.

GWC... 08-12-2008 09:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rose (Post 78840)
I have to agree with you on this one, sa meredith. I know I've self-edited on several occasions because I figured what I was about to post might be construed as negative against what I would call "one of the blessed" posters and I just figured I'd get flamed for it. Whether anyone here wants to admit it or not, there can definitely be a clique mentality on this forum at times. Maybe that's why the FF is garnering little interest this year.

The apathy was present this winter - bed/sled race.

Quote:

Originally Posted by McDude post
Bed race results

Six teams participated in the Bed Race. Beds were creative and included unique construction, decorations and themes.

Six teams participated and the winniipesaukedotcom team was nowhere to be seen, as a participant.

The economy has tanked, Forum members are on edge, and their thoughts are focused on paying bills, keeping warm in the Winter, and fuel for the commute.

The clock keeps ticking and before most realize, it's too late to have, schedule, or organize an event.

With all the rain, an indoor setting may be the best location. Steve A and Pepper know of one such setting.

fatlazyless 08-12-2008 09:53 PM

On Monday, August 18, the Mount Washington theme dinner cruise is an Elvis tribute for $43, each. What say we all chip in to hire a large, slow moving, airplane and do a group parachute, sky dive, drop-in of the very newly created Official Winnipesaukee FLYING ELVIS' Forum Group and do a group sky dive onto the Mount's poop deck.

Want to become a Winnipesaukee 'Flying Elvis' skydiver? Thankyou for asking and you have been pre-approved! :D

Hopefully, it will be a dark & stormy night!

A Mount Washington, unlimited 2008 season, adult beverage pass will be awarded to the best Elvis look-a-like!
Just imagine, free booze-cruis'n from now to Halloween for one lucky Elvis!

Ropetow 08-12-2008 09:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rose (Post 78840)
Whether anyone here wants to admit it or not, there can definitely be a clique mentality on this forum at times. Maybe that's why the FF is garnering little interest this year.

Ditto. I read the Forum frequently, but personally find it to be more 'fun' in the off-season. BTW, just imagine how busy Yuki would be were all this precipitation falling as snow!

twoplustwo 08-13-2008 06:00 AM

wah wah wah
 
Life is what you make of it. So is this forum. Enough of the Debbie Downer act, already. The Sox managed to win that wacko game last night, the sun is shining, my basement is sort of dry. Let's have a round of Kum Ba Yah and make plans to attend :D

chipj29 08-13-2008 06:35 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rose (Post 78840)
I have to agree with you on this one, sa meredith. I know I've self-edited on several occasions because I figured what I was about to post might be construed as negative against what I would call "one of the blessed" posters and I just figured I'd get flamed for it. Whether anyone here wants to admit it or not, there can definitely be a clique mentality on this forum at times. Maybe that's why the FF is garnering little interest this year.

I have to agree, but will also add that the mentality is very similar on most other forums as well. I think it is because people start to get to "know" other people, and human nature is to defend those who we know and like.

SIKSUKR 08-13-2008 06:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by twoplustwo (Post 78854)
Life is what you make of it. So is this forum. Enough of the Debbie Downer act, already. The Sox managed to win that wacko game last night, the sun is shining, my basement is sort of dry. Let's have a round of Kum Ba Yah and make plans to attend :D

My thoughts exactly.

sa meredith 08-13-2008 08:24 AM

people we know
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by chipj29 (Post 78857)
I have to agree, but will also add that the mentality is very similar on most other forums as well. I think it is because people start to get to "know" other people, and human nature is to defend those who we know and like.

While I agree it is human nature to defend someone we know, and not want to think poorly of them, I wonder if I can ask your opinion, Chipj29...
When these poeple look the other way, when someone they know messes up, or acts poorly...and yet when someone they don't know does something very similar, they call them an "idiot" "fool" "jerk" etc....Are they not setting themselves up to be called out? Or should the flip/flop just be ignored?
It tends to get my blood boiling, although I am working toward just ignoring it. I guess I always seem to set myself up to be the bad guy...but posters should be held accountable for what they write...yes? no? maybe?

Happy Gourmand 08-13-2008 08:39 AM

Negative Attacks
 
Posted by SA Meredith
"Flash forward to the Saturday morning that a negative review was written about Waldo Peppers..."Whoa, my Heavenly God, though shall not fault thee famous Waldo Peppers...damn thee to eternal fire..yee evil poster" was about the gist of all the regular forum members posts as the day unfolded.
And it was funny..because the negative post turned out to be truthful and accurate. But in the beginning, it was OK to just dis-regard the posters negative review, and chastise him...he was attacking "one of our own".
The inconsistencies just drove me crazy....so I just felt compelled to react."

SA, You were the first to come to my defense shortly after I posted my comments and was thoroughly flamed and attacked by some of the frequent posters. I was called a liar, among other nasty names and was even denigrated and lambasted for my choice of user name, not to mention that I was a "NEW" member and as such, obvioulsy not a forum regular which seemed to make my comments and opinions without merit. I thank you for piping in and defending me and my comments even before many others posted in agreement with my review. After so many agreed with my comments, indeed some continued to attack me for chosing my user name, saying that I should drop the "Phantom" and stating that I am not a gourmet. I never claimed to be, nor do I make that claim now. But please, don't tell me what I am NOT when you don't even know who I AM. That is name calling at its best.....or worst!
To those of you who will choose to continue your propensity to dismiss and/or attack comments made by newer members of the forum, try to remember that most of the posters, new and old, do so without an agenda and with no malice or other negative intent. It seems pretty easy to smoke out those who post otherwise.
The old saying that "if you have nothing good to say, then don't" pretty much defeats the purpose of a forum whose title asks for reviews of local restaurants. Indeed, this forum, like others, should foster an open and honest discussion of opinions about local eateries....they aren't always positive....but they are opinions...nothing more...nothing less.
Let us all try to be more respectful towards others who may not share our views.
TPG

chipj29 08-13-2008 09:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sa meredith (Post 78871)
While I agree it is human nature to defend someone we know, and not want to think poorly of them, I wonder if I can ask your opinion, Chipj29...
When these poeple look the other way, when someone they know messes up, or acts poorly...and yet when someone they don't know does something very similar, they call them an "idiot" "fool" "jerk" etc....Are they not setting themselves up to be called out? Or should the flip/flop just be ignored?
It tends to get my blood boiling, although I am working toward just ignoring it. I guess I always seem to set myself up to be the bad guy...but posters should be held accountable for what they write...yes? no? maybe?

This is where I think it gets tricky. While we think we "know" the posters, particularly the regulars, it is super easy to sit behind a keyboard and type something mean and/or nasty. It is a lot easier to type it, than to say it to someones face. I think that is the biggest problem with internet interactions in general.
Personally, I am not quick to judge. In person or online, I am not one to call out someone by calling them an idiot, or whatever. I am however very sarcastic, which can be a problem especially on the internet. You just cannot see the body language or facial expressions that, in person, would be a dead giveaway to the sarcasm.
I really wish I had taken some psychology courses in my younger years. I think it would be fascinating to research personal interactions and how they have evolved (devolved?) in the internet era.

RLW 08-13-2008 09:26 AM

Has anyone noticed that the gang that has been doing the most of the work for the FF in the past haven't been on here since about or around July 24th. I can read between the lines and I can't see why some of the others can't and they just keep going over and over the same things. It looks as if the regulars aren't carrying the same feelings as in the past which I for one do not blame them.:)

SIKSUKR 08-13-2008 12:56 PM

The almighty hijack
 
Back on topic please.Any info on this years FF would be greatly appreciated as I have never been able to make past ones because of my work schedule.This year its wide open.I want to go meet more of you Forumistas!

Rose 08-13-2008 02:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SIKSUKR (Post 78911)
Back on topic please.Any info on this years FF would be greatly appreciated as I have never been able to make past ones because of my work schedule.This year its wide open.I want to go meet more of you Forumistas!

There is no info...that was the cause of the hijack...speculation as to why so little interest.

DRH 08-13-2008 08:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RLW (Post 78880)
Has anyone noticed that the gang that has been doing the most of the work for the FF in the past haven't been on here since about or around July 24th. I can read between the lines and I can't see why some of the others can't and they just keep going over and over the same things. It looks as if the regulars aren't carrying the same feelings as in the past which I for one do not blame them.:)

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The small group of forum members who have done pretty much all the work for past ForumFests, while they have not lost interest in attending the event, feel it's time for others to step forward and plan, coordinate and run it. Frankly, we got burned out. The same small group should not be expected to carry the ball every year. As RLW surmised, that's why we haven't been participating in this thread.

Someone needs to volunteer to be "in charge". That person then needs several other volunteers to help plan various parts of the event. Input should be obtained from the members at large concerning date, time, location, raffle prizes, raffle proceeds recipient, etc., but decisions must be made if the event is ever actually going to take place.

What's missing this year is someone willing to be "in charge". Unless someone steps forward and volunteers to serve in that role, there won't be a ForumFest this year.

tis 08-14-2008 06:46 AM

Not to be negative but if everyone is burned out (and I know how much works it is to plan events as I have done many), maybe you should just make it a simpler event. Just pick a place, and have people go and meet. Then noone has to do anything. Do you really need food? Eat lunch before. If you want to donate to a cause, just put a bucket out for people to put money in. I mean, it could be that simple if you want it to be.

SIKSUKR 08-14-2008 07:21 AM

I'll bring the bucket.

RLW 08-14-2008 11:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tis (Post 78999)
Not to be negative but if everyone is burned out (and I know how much works it is to plan events as I have done many), maybe you should just make it a simpler event. Just pick a place, and have people go and meet. Then noone has to do anything. Do you really need food? Eat lunch before. If you want to donate to a cause, just put a bucket out for people to put money in. I mean, it could be that simple if you want it to be.

I hear what you are saying, but the people who started the FF, which by the way was done in a fantastic way. They kinda set a president where everyone felt comfortable walking around talking with each other with a soda and something to eat (snack) in their hand while at the same time viewing peoples homemade wares to be raffled off with the money going to different causes each time. It was just a wonderful time by all and hopefully will continue to be the same way the next time one is held. I am writing this as a non attender due to having previous engagements, however I sure enjoy the stories from all those that attended both personally and on the forum.
Just go back to last years or the years before threads and see all the work and enjoyment everyone had in the planning the dates, volunteering for different things to bring both in food and raffle materials. PLEASE BRING BACK THOSE WONDERFUL DAYS!!!!:)
RLW

Argie's Wife 08-14-2008 09:21 PM

Dodging all of the earlier posts....

Someone motioned for the Dockside to the location and someone else seconded the motion... that's one option.

There may be other options but I'd say lets pick it soon - the days are getting shorter.

I motion that we aim for the third weekend in September. Does that sound fair?

Is there a way to take a poll for this?

I'm hoping the weather in September is less wet than what we've seen in August!

Again, I'm happy to help....

Island Girl 08-16-2008 09:00 AM

Ok, I will bite
 
I agree with DRH. At the risk of being flamed I will add my two cents then slide back into obscurity.

Each year the fourm fest was "run" by a few who wanted a get together. Each year the decision on when and where got worse as no one could agree (friendly disagreements). Each year someone jumped up and took the ball and ran with it and then others jumped in and helped. We have had some lovely times at each event. I took the ball last year. We did have a nice event and raised some money for the humane society. Some disagreed with my actions ... but once it got going people rallied to the cause.

We all have our preferences for time of year, location, and free vs. going to someplace where we have to pay.

The difficulty I see in going to a restaurant is the variable size of the group. I don't think a restaurant wants a bunch of people lingering and walking around for a couple of hours, some buying, some not.

I personally loved Cate Park because getting there for me from Rattlesnake Island was less painful that other places, we could set up tables and just hang out. Many also loved Lake Shore Park ... and since it rained part of the time being indoors was really cool.

Some suggested the Mount last year. It might be a good place this year to help out one of our most loved attractions. You cannot come and go but the wandering aspect would be nice.. also could not bring food... but they have food for purchase. We could have the raffle. If the right cruise was chosen some could get on at the Weirs and others at Wolfeboro or Alton Bay depending on which day it was held. I could help arrange that event with the Mount... but otherwise want to step back and let others have a turn with the planning.

All this takes is for one or two people to make a date and a place and the people will follow. The previous organizers would certainly give advice as to what needs to be done.

So... there you are... come on... one of you just set a date, time and place... this forum needs a boost of community spirit right about now.

IG

sa meredith 08-16-2008 09:36 AM

hello
 
Island Girl, I was wondering what had become of you.
As for some of the "lack of community spirt", and ill will that has become common pace on this forum..I take some responsibilty for that, and have spent the last few days sending PMs to several members, in my small attempt to "mend fences". It seems for a while, every day I would somehow end up engaged in a battle of some sort...I never meant it to be that way, it just sort of happened. I sometimes get frustrated when someone states their opinions as being facts...there is a difference. That is where it would start, and from there....God knows.
But, alas, I have seen the light...and now if something irks me, I try hard to just move on.
FF 2008....I would certainly agree that the same people cannot do all the work all the time. I would submit, however, that the planning of such an event is probably best left to a person/people that live in the region full time, or at least are there 4/5 days a week during the planning stage. I would think they generally have many more "contacts", and would be there first hand to deal with small situations that may require attention during the planning stage. A once a weeker, or 2 or 3 times a month person who live hours away would probably not be the best person to take the riegns. Just my thoughts...
Lastly, I wish to take this time to once again thank you publicly for the play by play you delivered last September, as the sunken Cobalt was raised. The pictures and stories you delivered that day were priceless. Thank you.

Island Girl 08-16-2008 09:43 AM

Suggestion
 
I think all of the previous FFs have been planned by weekenders living in places other that the Lakes Region. The issue is really the commitment to set the time and place... and to monitor the posts for the volunteers and contributions.

For the event itself... it mostly runs itself except for the raffle. Someone needs to bring tickets, a table for that... and make sure that others are bringing tables for the items.

If the event is held somewhere that needs permission, someone has to arrange that.

Now... some people always do something... Lakegeezeer likes to put the event on the internet... so needs power... Some folks can always be depended on to do some other things.

At the event itself... people just do things... like grab some food and pass it around... set up tables, arrange raffle items.. etc.

Why don't you organize it!!!!

IG

sa meredith 08-16-2008 10:05 AM

On the spot..
 
Wow! You sort of put me on the spot, there. No? (maybe not intentionally)
Well, although I would be happy to do something to help (donate a raffle item, $$$, whatever) I may not be the best person as, if the event is on a Saturday, (which I believe is the norm) I would not know if I would be able to attend until a day or so before hand. Getting a Saturday off work is next to immpossible for me, but I had planned on trying.
And, I was not suggesting you continue to do it...if you thought that was my intent, I apologize. It was not.
Maybe it is possible to organize from afar...my bad!

Heaven 08-16-2008 12:09 PM

It sounded like Tis pretty much volunteered, didn't it?

Mr. Moyer 08-16-2008 06:07 PM

Argies wife,

I would be the second to join on the 3rd weekend in sept. I just don't know where the dockside is, but I could figure it out. I'm in for that weekend if we decide that's the time.

SteveA 08-18-2008 07:41 AM

See Post #9 in this thread
 
I still like the Loon Center as a potential location.

Indoors in case of bad weather, full internet connections, new venue, in a different part of the lake, and a great cause for raffle procedes. JMHO.

http://www.loon.org/

As a member of the of the Loon Presevation, I would be willing to check out if it would be available. ( fee/no fee, can we bring in food, dates that may be available, etc.)

RLW 08-18-2008 09:08 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SteveA (Post 79350)
I still like the Loon Center as a potential location.

Indoors in case of bad weather, full internet connections, new venue, in a different part of the lake, and a great cause for raffle procedes. JMHO.

http://www.loon.org/

As a member of the of the Loon Presevation, I would be willing to check out if it would be available. ( fee/no fee, can we bring in food, dates that may be available, etc.)

Sounds great. What kind of travel time are we talking about from the southern end of the lake????:)

Seeker 08-18-2008 10:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RLW (Post 79358)
Sounds great. What kind of travel time are we talking about from the southern end of the lake????:)

If you've been to the Castle it's about 10 minutes closer coming from Center Harbor or 10 minutes further coming from Wolfeboro..

GWC... 08-24-2008 09:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SteveA (Post 79350)
I still like the Loon Center as a potential location.

Indoors in case of bad weather, full internet connections, new venue, in a different part of the lake, and a great cause for raffle procedes. JMHO.

http://www.loon.org/

As a member of the of the Loon Presevation, I would be willing to check out if it would be available. ( fee/no fee, can we bring in food, dates that may be available, etc.)

Any info yet on availability, food situation, fee involved, etc.?

Misty Blue 08-26-2008 08:39 AM

Decision Time!
 
SteveA.

'Sounds like you have a good idea with the loon center. It's got the space,you are a LPC member and we have a built in charity! The planets must be in alignment because I have the 3rd weekend of September off (so far). So when we have a hard date we can work on logistics.

If you want to do the leg work on getting the loon center I can do the following...

I live on Braun Bay and can provide two moorings and probably four to five dock spaces for the islanders. (Sounds like fun Rattlesnake Gal?) With the help of one of our fourm volunteers we can set up a shuttle with my vehicles to the center from the bay. It's about 15 minutes away.

I've got a webber, tables and, if needed, a generator. Oh Yeah,and a cooler!

If you want to pick up the ball and run with this I have your back.

This shindig could end up in the hot tub!

Please contact me by Cell Phone 455-7178. I don't check the computer daily.

Misty Blue.

Argie's Wife 08-26-2008 11:12 AM

Steve - if you wish to nail down the location, I would be more than happy to help with arrangements or to bring food or whathaveyou.

I assume that Saturday, September 20 is the official date?

I look forward to meeting you all!

GWC... 08-26-2008 07:27 PM

Time for things that go bump in the night...

Here's a synopsis type update...
Quote:

Originally Posted by SIKSUKR
I have never been able to make past ones because of my work schedule.This year its wide open.I want to go meet more of you Forumistas!

You did get the memo from Argie’s Wife, right?

Seriously, Steve A likes the LPC and Argie’s Wife would be more than happy to help with arrangements or to bring food or whathaveyou.

Misty Blue rates a Thank You vote for this post...

Quote:

Originally Posted by Misty Blue
I live on Braun Bay and can provide two moorings and probably four to five dock spaces for the islanders. (Sounds like fun Rattlesnake Gal?) With the help of one of our fourm volunteers we can set up a shuttle with my vehicles to the center from the bay. It's about 15 minutes away.

I've got a webber, tables and, if needed, a generator. Oh Yeah,and a cooler!

If you want to pick up the ball and run with this I have your back.

This shindig could end up in the hot tub!

So, what do think, SIKSUKR?

Quote:

Originally Posted by SIKSUKR
Oh boy,I need to meet some of you loonatics.


SIKSUKR 08-27-2008 12:25 PM

I'm not sure what your asking me GWC.

GWC... 08-27-2008 04:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SIKSUKR (Post 80163)
I'm not sure what your asking me GWC.

Nothing more than to keep your calendar flexible around September 20th for this year's annual winnipesaukeedotcom Forum Fest. :)

Why?

Quote:

Originally Posted by Argoie's Wife
I assume that Saturday, September 20 is the official date?

You were serious about trying to attend?

SteveA 08-27-2008 05:09 PM

Hello All
 
Just to report in.. I have made several calls to Mr. Vogel at the Loon Center. I'll keep trying.

I want to be clear.. I "thought" it was a good idea. I haven't been able to connect with the the Loon Center.

The date sounds good to me, it all depends on the fine folks at the Loon Center.

Misty Blue.. God Bless You, but.. the FF's I've been to do have "coolers' but they have all been filled with soft drinks. The folks that let us use the facilities almost always require that. (LSP 2 years ago and the "Park" in Wolfeboro last year.)

So you may have to :cheers: at another location after the event. ;)

AW... your offer for help is greatly appreciated. The challenge will be getting the items donated for the raffle, which is the only way the FF raises money for the selected charity. We'll need to set the date and place.. and then get started asking for items to be raffled off.

Argie's Wife 08-27-2008 07:10 PM

Hi SteveA and others reading this thread....

I've started a thread asking for donations just to get people thinking.... I've also proposed that we select the NH Humane Society again as our charity. Since September is almost upon us (*sob! sniff!*) I think the sooner we get things rolling the better....
:)

I've noticed that in the past, the event was held from 2 to 4PM - how does that sound to y'all?

Also, since it's in the afternoon, why don't we keep the food simple by having just desserts, chips-n-dip, etc. - and everyone can just bring something to eat and drinks.... What do you think.... ??

Skip 08-27-2008 09:34 PM

Coolers & hot tubs?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by SteveA (Post 80203)
...Misty Blue.. God Bless You, but.. the FF's I've been to do have "coolers' but they have all been filled with soft drinks. The folks that let us use the facilities almost always require that. (LSP 2 years ago and the "Park" in Wolfeboro last year.)

So you may have to :cheers: at another location after the event. ;)...

How about it Misty B.....where do I sign up? :cheers:

GWC... 08-29-2008 01:24 PM

Hope Lakegeezer will be able to supply a live feed...

Misty Blue 08-30-2008 08:13 AM

Tub time!
 
Skip:

If the FF ends up at the loon center we may end up with some membes (I expect island people) docking/mooring at my place. Sounds like a good place to end the shenanigans.

Just remember, before you DIVE in I need to hear two hits on the Klaxon!

Misty Blue.

ghfromaltonbay 08-30-2008 11:06 AM

Joisey will be represented!
 
Glad to hear the FF2008 is a go for the 20th. I'll be heading up on the 19th, so count me in. The Loon Center sounds like a great choice rain or shine. I'll see if I have something to contribute to the raffle.

Argie's Wife 08-30-2008 11:15 AM

Just because there's been a couple of discussion threads, etc. about the forum fest, I felt it was best if we had the information "front and center" in it's own thread [HERE].

Thanks to SteveA for getting the location for us!

I truly look forward to meeting y'all! :)


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